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Letting friends drive your car in MN: better to add them or rely on permissive use?

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samcrafter
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That’s a really solid point. I’ve read through a few policy documents lately, and the definition of “regular use” is honestly a lot broader than I expected. It’s tempting to just assume you’re covered, but the risk isn’t worth it if someone’s driving your car more than just occasionally. The paperwork might be a pain, but it beats dealing with a denied claim down the road.


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skier65
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It’s tempting to just assume you’re covered, but the risk isn’t worth it if someone’s driving your car more than just occasionally. The paperwork might be a pain, but it beats dealing with a denied claim down the road.

- I get where you’re coming from, but I’m not totally convinced adding every friend who borrows your car is always necessary.
- “Regular use” is vague, yeah, but insurance companies aren’t usually looking to deny claims for a one-off weekend or a quick errand. If someone’s using your car once a month or less, is that really “regular”? Feels like a gray area.
- I’ve had friends borrow my car for a road trip or when their car was in the shop. Never had an issue, and my agent basically said as long as it’s not a pattern, permissive use is fine. Maybe I’m just lucky, but it seems like common sense should count for something.
- The paperwork thing—honestly, it’s not just a pain, it can get expensive. Some policies bump up your premium for every additional driver, even if they barely use the car. That adds up fast if you’re just trying to help someone out for a day or two.
- I do wonder how often claims actually get denied for this. Has anyone here actually had a claim denied because a friend borrowed their car “too often”? Or is it mostly just a theoretical risk?

Not saying you shouldn’t be careful, but I don’t know if it’s worth stressing over every single time you toss someone the keys. Maybe just keep track of how often it happens and use some judgment. If it starts to feel like a pattern, then yeah, probably time to add them. Otherwise, I’d rather not jump through hoops for every occasional favor.


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Honestly, I wouldn’t bank on “common sense” with insurance companies—they’ll look for any reason to deny a claim if it saves them money. Had a buddy in Duluth get burned when his roommate borrowed his car every couple weeks. Insurer called that “regular use” and denied the payout after a fender bender. It’s rare, but it happens. I’d say if someone’s borrowing your car more than once or twice a month, it’s not worth the gamble.


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kennethcamper
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Insurer called that “regular use” and denied the payout after a fender bender. It’s rare, but it happens.

That’s wild. I’m actually in the middle of getting my first policy and this is exactly the kind of stuff that makes me nervous. I always thought “permissive use” was a pretty safe bet if you trust your friends, but hearing stories like this makes me rethink things. My cousin borrows my car maybe once a month for grocery runs, and now I’m wondering if that’s pushing it.

I get that insurance companies have to draw the line somewhere, but it feels like they’re just waiting for a technicality sometimes. Still, I guess it’s better to be safe than sorry—especially if someone’s using your car more than just occasionally. The last thing I want is to find out after an accident that I’m not covered because of some fine print.

Honestly, adding someone to your policy might cost a bit more, but compared to getting stuck with a denied claim? Seems worth it for the peace of mind.


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debbieecho610
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I always thought “permissive use” was a pretty safe bet if you trust your friends, but hearing stories like this makes me rethink things.

Yeah, I hear you on the nerves. Insurance fine print is wild sometimes. I used to think “permissive use” was a catch-all too, but after my buddy’s claim got denied because his roommate borrowed his car a couple times a month, I’m way more cautious. Like you said, “adding someone to your policy might cost a bit more, but compared to getting stuck with a denied claim? Seems worth it for the peace of mind.” I’d rather pay a little extra than risk a big headache later. Once a month for your cousin is kinda borderline, honestly. Maybe just call your agent and see what they say? Sometimes they’re more chill if you’re upfront.


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